Friday, November 25, 2011

Knock Knock, Penny, Knock Knock... FYBF

Boy 1: 2005 - First day of school.


We are coming to the end of the final term of the final year of his Primary school years. The child that was is now the young man that is. For those of you who have followed our story you will know what an incredible difference these years have wrought.

I am bursting with pride at the person before me. This year I had asked him and encouraged him to enter one of the more popular public speaking programs in our district. I said "His was a story that should be told... maybe he could speak of what his school years had done for him? Wouldn't that be a wonderful thing for his teachers to hear?"

He refused. "Why?" I asked, thinking of myself basking in his reflected light.

I must admit I was influenced by another who had done something similar a few years back, though I knew her story had been written not by herself.

"Because they see me everyday and know what it has meant to me."

BAZINGA!

This is the child who has written an illustrated children's book, this is the boy who is happy to market and talk and educate in any public arena to help those younger on the spectrum and to assist those around them to understand and support those kids.

He knew perfectly well my request was not born of my usual educate, advocate, demonstrate philosophy, but rather of a "Ner, ner" motivation. Not to our teachers, but to others who had not believed, who had belittled and made our my life difficult.

He loves me, he loves so very deeply, and yes, he teaches me to be a better person. He is right, they see him every day and realise what an impact they have had on this once lost, little boy who has blossomed into this gorgeous, strong young man.

I see less and less of Sheldon, and more and more of my Deepak boy emerging.

Boy 1: 23/11/11.

Thank you my son, for taking me with you on this incredible journey that is your life.


FlogYoBlog Friday 25/11

1. The state of us  34. 5 Things that tell me I know I am over being preg  
2. Honey You Baked  35. Oh For Fucks Sake Friday  
3. miss.cinders@SMOM  36. THE MEANING OF LIFE - LA STYLE  
4. A Dose of Dannie  37. A positive birth experience - an {active} birth  
5. Do you have a good sock relationship or are you a bit Sock-ist like me?  38. the longest and best three years  
6. Friday Fashion Picks: The Kyle & Jackie O Edition  39. The PMT challenge  
7. A vlog and a giveaway!  40. US Thanksgiving at Perpetually Me  
8. A Welcoming Hearth  41. An open letter to any business considering an online coupon deal  
9. Mixed Gems - Will I miss not having my boy?  42. One is the loneliest number  
10. *Knock*Knock, Penny, *Knock*Knock*  43. Why I don't watch daytime television...  
11. Best. Pizza. Ever.  44. Hey Kyle, would you like a White Ribbon? No?!  
12. Keeping on top of your photos  45. Kath  
13. It's mums night off  46. SAHMadness- Dear Santa (A Mums wish list)  
14. 5 things you didn't know about Anna Millie - Versatile Blogger Award  47. Bee - Dental Surgery Sucks  
15. Mums the Word..the secret life of this desperate housewife  48. new self cleaning domestic goddess apron sketch  
16. Will our children be able to break free from our sterotypes?  49. Giving Back Girl - a gorgeous message for girls  
17. MummyK's hotness list  50. Liz@LastChanceTraining  
18. Thanking my fancy pants  51. Come on Mum you can do it!  
19. The Grinch who stole my phone  52. The Tiger Father  
20. Life Love and Hiccups  53. Fussy Eater's Mum  
21. Beast & Beauty  54. Country Life Experiment  
22. CTM > Christmas Gingerbread Cookies  55. NeeSay - Opting Out  
23. Back to reality - with a thud  56. The company of strangers  
24. Amy @ MahliMoo  57. When Dean Martin is preferable to Kyle Sandilands  
25. Tutu Ames  58. At least daddy can cook...  
26. Parental Parody  59. My Goal  
27. Veggie Mama Vlogs!  60. Living Life Playing the Gladd Game  
28. Sshh Mummys on the Phone: The Thinking Womans Crumpet List  61. It gets better with age  
29. My Birthday Party - Strawberries & Cream Heart Cakes  62. Maid In Australia  
30. Jayne @ Non Domestik Goddess  63. Where does your inspiration come from?  
31. ONE YEAR OLD  64. Cranku Old Man-"The Goodbye Tour"  
32. Parenthood is an experience of contradictions  65. Sarah Kaye's Home  
33. HO HO HO  66. Kirsty@Bowerbird Blue  

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4 comments:

Anna Millie said...

That's beautiful tribute to your son! You clearly always believed in him. Well done for raising such a gorgeous young man!

Yvette said...

What a lovely answer your son gave you! Such wisdom at his age is fantastic!! Love the post! congrats on graduating to the next level of school!

Leanne @ Deep Fried Fruit said...

Where's the LIKE button? I need to press the LIKE button

robyn said...

That is so very wonderful. Such a nice thing to hear :)