tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4361480824395722677.post6192584437694886789..comments2023-06-14T21:12:22.878+10:00Comments on Meaninless Meandering from a Madmother: The Darkness.Madmotherhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/18189416781378632230noreply@blogger.comBlogger13125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4361480824395722677.post-71489340356300386432010-05-15T22:08:48.852+10:002010-05-15T22:08:48.852+10:00(((hugs))) MM. Bullies can smell weakness and stri...(((hugs))) MM. Bullies can smell weakness and strike nasty blows when their victim is at their lowest. But you are not their victim for that would give them ownership over you. You have relinquished the war, it doesn't mean that they will, but that gives you the upperhand. For if you acknowledge that there is nothing to fight for anymore then their attempts at hurting you will mean nothing. People will see MM that it is them, it is not you. Hold your head high, hug your boys (DH included) and let them be your anchors. I am so sorry that you are going through this. :(Jenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11909098646294265399noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4361480824395722677.post-63857834727222396482010-05-15T21:45:02.995+10:002010-05-15T21:45:02.995+10:00Hang on to what you know is true... they do not de...Hang on to what you know is true... they do not define who you are... walk away from this one with your head held high ... the truth will come out in the wash eventually ... thinking of you...*hugs*Lady Greyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15848734980524877698noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4361480824395722677.post-77034957653073126132010-05-15T20:33:05.605+10:002010-05-15T20:33:05.605+10:00hugs, sending you strength, good karma, a bit of l...hugs, sending you strength, good karma, a bit of luck and all my love and best wishes.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4361480824395722677.post-32775953518153929492010-05-15T18:37:08.465+10:002010-05-15T18:37:08.465+10:00Ouch. My heart goes out to you, I really like what...Ouch. My heart goes out to you, I really like what Kristin said "lose the battle, win the war", this sounds like a battle that you can't win.<br />I love the Mother Theresa quote too, wise words. I hope they can get you through this time.<br />Thinking of you with positive and warm thoughts xxChristiehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09276070221178771348noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4361480824395722677.post-6891840031169067712010-05-15T12:46:40.333+10:002010-05-15T12:46:40.333+10:00I'm sorry I made you feel ill. Guess one shoul...I'm sorry I made you feel ill. Guess one shouldnt try to joke when feeling like... this. <br /><br />As i "epic fail" at being a comfort, and at lightening the mood, I will say nothing.<br /><br />Because the only thing to do here is let it - and this person - go. Which you know and arent ready for. <br /><br />Yet.<br /><br />I will simply sit here and pass you a blue crayon.Epskeehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14142572924955344158noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4361480824395722677.post-52283340008943009232010-05-15T12:27:07.104+10:002010-05-15T12:27:07.104+10:00Sorry to hear. Hope things get better for you soon...Sorry to hear. Hope things get better for you soon. Take care.Just Wendy https://www.blogger.com/profile/05268645629027109282noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4361480824395722677.post-56663237676122577182010-05-15T11:08:51.046+10:002010-05-15T11:08:51.046+10:00MM, What can I say to ease your pain a bit, except...MM, What can I say to ease your pain a bit, except that I'm sorry you are hurting and I wish I could wrap you in a blanket of comfort right now. How sad that there are people in this world that are so small and frightened that they feel the need to hurt other people like this. They gain nothing and lose the bearings of their souls.<br /><br />Hang on. Lose the battle, win the war. Sending you hugs from across the miles.Wanderlusthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12099758957492165428noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4361480824395722677.post-13611074144589236222010-05-15T11:01:38.044+10:002010-05-15T11:01:38.044+10:00Keep breathing, MM. It helps.
BTW, Kimmie, I lik...Keep breathing, MM. It helps. <br /><br />BTW, Kimmie, I like that Mother Teresa quote. I hate saccharine platitudes, and I'm definitely a confirmed atheist, but hey, Teresa was a gutsy old woman.Lisahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15204296607647235533noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4361480824395722677.post-89956924713578683972010-05-15T10:22:33.907+10:002010-05-15T10:22:33.907+10:00I'm so sorry to hear you are in such a dark pl...I'm so sorry to hear you are in such a dark place. I wish I had just the right words to say. I wish I could give you a hug. <br />Blog it all out, this is safe place, we're all here for you. xxxThea https://www.blogger.com/profile/11598198538476571667noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4361480824395722677.post-50667406778116215622010-05-15T08:56:21.569+10:002010-05-15T08:56:21.569+10:00I'm sorry. I'm glad you're able to ge...I'm sorry. I'm glad you're able to get it out, even a little, on here. Here is a safe place for you. We're here, even if all we can do is listen.TheThingsIdTellYouhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06864291645372635512noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4361480824395722677.post-88736555094517640502010-05-15T08:50:56.114+10:002010-05-15T08:50:56.114+10:00At least I am posting. Earlier this week I could n...At least I am posting. Earlier this week I could not. I wrote one but deleted it quickly. This blog IS my therapy so much of the time and the fact that I felt physically ill at the thought of writing... well, you get the idea. I still feel ill, but can contain it, the shaking, not so well.<br /><br />But yesterday and today I have been able to mask the worst of me, Wed and Thurs I could not. I am hoping I do not go down again as talking to a friend last night I fell apart again. But at least I spoke to her, I could not have before. I could not even talk to those I love. I could not breath.Madmotherhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18189416781378632230noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4361480824395722677.post-47704605996779673242010-05-15T08:41:37.001+10:002010-05-15T08:41:37.001+10:00Hugs sweet lady. Hold on tight to those you love ...Hugs sweet lady. Hold on tight to those you love for they are what you live for. Find that inner strength I know you have, hey you used to roller derby you need inner strength for that. Fold the love around you like a cloak of armour, to deflect her hateful barbs and know that karma is a bitch - she will get hers soon enough. If that fails, give me her address I am sending the goons in. xxxKakkahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16376864098492915312noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4361480824395722677.post-5069745034417520212010-05-15T07:54:48.641+10:002010-05-15T07:54:48.641+10:00In the final analysis
"People are often unre...In the final analysis<br /><br />"People are often unreasonable, irrational, and self-centered; forgive them anyway. If you are kind, people may accuse you of selfish, ulterior motives: Be kind anyway. What you spend years creating others could destroy overnight: Create anyway. If you find serenity and happiness, some may be jealous. Be happy anyway. The good you do today, will often be forgotten. Do good anyway. Give the best you have, and it may never be enough: Give your best anyway. In the final analysis, it is between you and God: it was never between you and them anyway."<br /><br /><br />~ Mother Teresa, a Saint.Kimmiehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12284838618731232851noreply@blogger.com